Welcome to my new Thrifty Thursday blog!
I love to live life where I save money on the things that I can so I have money to do the amazing things I REALLY want to use my money on. For me that is traveling, and currently paying off the mortgage. To accomplish those things and still live a good life I love to find unique and fun ways that fit into my lifestyle but also save money, reduce waste or help save something from a landfill.
Here is a BIG difference between me and some other thrifty, money saving bloggers. I REFUSE to take on a “thrifty, bargain basement mindset”. I live an abundant life, full of great blessings, family, a business I love and I believe we should surround ourselves with things we love (like art!) 🙂 I think it’s important to know why your saving money, do not fall into a “I’m poor” mentality. I know people of all income levels that struggle with money, I know people of all income levels that feel abundant and happy. It seems to be the American way for us to live a bit beyond our means no matter what we make. I’m putting my foot down. I refuse. We work hard in our family to not use our Credit cards, pay cash for things in full and still live a great life.
We are just beginning the process of painting all the trim in our home, next we’ll be ripping off all the sheetrock in our kitchen, living and dining room. Our house was built many years ago and it greatly suffers on proper insulation. In the last year we’ve done 2 bedrooms and re-insulated. I can hardly believe the difference. Since we do it all ourselves, it’s relatively cheap to do. (A couple hundred bucks). But the savings on our heating and a/c bills are huge without leaks all over the place. I realized when I found a vine from our fence outside that had made it’s way under the wall and was growing up into our living room awhile back that somewhere there is something wrong. So today I’ve been home with Aspen, we’ve been painting trim all day. It was going really good til he went rogue and painted the doorknobs. He is 3, so ….
I look forward to sharing great bulk cooking recipes, ideas and other cheap food ideas. I also LOVE to find furniture and other pieces and give them new life. It one time took me 8 hours to sew a pair of rectangle curtains… so I’m not very talented in that area. However, there is much room for growth. I have a few basic things that I’ve done in the last few years that have saves us big time. Good think for me I only needed to sew rectangles on those… I also want to share ideas on how to save money and do other things, like giving up things that it seems like “everyone else” has. And lastly I love talking about money and the mindset of money. How to change our thinking so we don’t shut off abundance and blessings from flowing in, how to keep ourselves connected and in the flow of money.
Today’s topic: Clutter and Stuff
Tip: When you buy, are given things, or receive gifts. In your mind categorize them into these categories:
Lifers: They are things we will use and keep for as long as possible. They are heirlooms, art, some decorative things.
Passing Through: These are things you will need and value but won’t need them forever. Things such as baby items, toys, baby furniture, etc. Items for an event (Example; when we got married we had a luau in our backyard for our reception. We had bought a trellis, some silk flowers that were mixed in with real flowers, other decor, a tiki bar, etc. Once the wedding was done we knew we didn’t have room for them anymore. So we sold them all.) These are things that you can re-sell, donate or pass on to others who need them when you are finished with them. Don’t mistake these for the first group. This is where clutter begins, we think because these items were special during a certain time period that we need to save them or hang on the them. You don’t. Free yourself. Take some nice photos of them to remember them and let them move on to others who will be grateful for them.
Fillers: These are things that are hand-me-downs, thrift store finds that you don’t love but needed until you can find exactly what you want or afford. My entire first apartment was filled with these. It was cute but as I’ve gotten older I’ve been able to be a bit more picky about what I surround myself with. I know really aim to have NOTHING in our home that we don’t use or REALLY love. We rarely keep stuff anymore just because, or because it’ll do.
Projects: These are things you pick up to re-do, makeover. Art projects, hobbies, etc. These are things that make you happy and feel good. A few years ago my dad after years of raising 5 kids and after my mom had passed away had to analyze his hobbies. He was realizing he had more hobbies than he did time to do them. Guiter, building and fixing boats, cars, woodworking, and a few others. So he picked his top 2 and had to let the others go. This actually helped free him up so he could really dive in and enjoy those.
Momentos: Yearbooks, photos, old trophies, concert booklets and guides, etc. Pick a box or tote and make a pledge to only hang onto that much. This is key for raising kids too. Realistically they aren’t going to want 7 bins of momentos when they move out someday. Pick the best, more memorable. Take photos of the others and put them in an album and add that in.
Here are a few things that for me where in the Passing Through group. I had them in my studio last year. It was fun to work on them and fun to see them all find great new homes when I was done with them:
If you have things to sell try ebay, craigslist, garage sales, giving away, consignment shops or donate! You’ll feel amazing as you start to clear out things that no longer have a place in your home. Plus energetically and physically you’ll be making room for things that genuinely make you feel good.